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When to Move: Transitioning from Home to Facility

by Lara Belonogoff

When does homecare stop fitting the bill? This question is faced by many and here's the rub—many people are reticent to move out of their home. I have come across similar situations in my family twice. When both my grandmother and aunt were ill, the attitude towards moving either into a long-term care facility was reticence. Both women were viewed as matriarchs who held together the family fabric in some invisible but very tangible way—similar to a French seam. Moving someone from their home has always been the last option in my family. But when family and in-home caregivers aren’t enough, then a change must be made.

If you are unsure of what you need or where to turn to find it, then I urge you to talk with a geriatric care manager or use Gilbert Guide's web site to help you. The bottom line: even if one is reluctant to leave their current home, it is about seeing that your family member is in the place which best suits his or her needs. The major topics you need to discuss should take into account financial, social and safety issues. Depending on the type and amount of care needed, one alternative may end up being more financially viable than the other.

The primary concern for families hiring homecare workers is usually financial. When a senior’s care needs increase, then the financial strain comes to the forefront. Having in-home care for more than a few hours a day is very expensive. Staying at home also involves the responsibility of taking care of the home. An assisted living facility requires a monthly fee, but all aspects of home ownership are taken care of. Another consideration is safety. Assisted living residents are monitored more often, and some facilities even employ staff RNs, which during emergency situations can be critical. Also ask yourself whether your loved one’s social needs are being met. One person coming into the home for a few hours a day may not be enough interaction, especially if that person is in other rooms tending to daily chores for prolonged periods of time. Assisted living facilities typically provide a variety of interesting activities, in addition to offering convenient services and resources. Many facilities have onsite services that run the gamut from beauty shops to chapels. Moving away from home might not sound appealing at first, but having a new one where everything is taken care of just might.

Wishing you all the best in making your decisions,

Lara Belonogoff

Posted in: Is It Right For You?, Selling the Family Home, Weighing your Housing Options

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